The whole “never kink shame” thing is bonkers because of the implied suggestion that the moment something becomes sexually arousing, it can no longer be criticized, because it really should be the other way around shouldn’t it?
Like, you can’t be like, “You like to dress up like a baby and stare at your cat’s butthole? You’re fucking weird dude. Wait, you say you get an erection when you do it? Oh okay. Never mind. You’re good.”