i dont shave my pits b/c its not worth my time. but i always wear long sleeves now so no one sees.. i dont know why i feel insecure about it, i dont think im dirty fot not shaving, its my desicion and its ok. i dont know why i feel insecure. help? :(

4 me personally every time i try something new i feel semi insecure about it for a lil bit just cuz its new territory kinda like a snail peekin its lil head outta its shell. if you do it enough times (go out in public w/ a tank top, maybe first just a quick trip to the mailbox, then to the grocery store, then maybe to an event with friends, etc) eventually ur FULL outta that shell & slippin around all silly when u realize that, hey, its ok, this is fine, everythings ok even tho i got hairy pits and ppl say im not allowed to. its still great! the suns still shining and theres a tun of grass for my snail body to munch on. just work little by little on bein brave!! ily and goooood luck!