dear mr j, sometimes in the mornings my cat jumps up onto my shoulders and starts purring and licking my face. i have to carry her while she does this, because she refuses to be put down. she has been doing this since she was a kitten, but is an adult now. i don't know why she does this, do you have any idea?

① she wants you to be cared about her because of love

② she wants you to groom you because of love

③ she wants you to get up and have a breakfast with you because of love