I feel weird about the growing trend of putting pronouns in like your zoom name or professional email signatures because it’s obviously like… a net positive for everyone to be more aware of nb and gnc people whose names/presentations don’t match their pronouns and for cis people to normalize that. But also I don’t really want to identify myself as a she/they to cishets but i also don’t want to write she/her because it feels inauthentic but also I don’t want to leave it off and seem unwoke