When you’re ranting about some annoying habit someone has and your friend is like “I think I do that too :/ ” so your rant is cancelled and now you have to scramble to find a not-too-sappy way to say “but it’s not annoying, Not If It’s You™.” It’s such a trap for the emotionally shy, “yes we are talking about the exact same thing, there is however a crucial difference………” and here the universe picks you up by the scruff of your neck, feeling as mortified as a cat rescued out of a well, and it gently shakes you until something resembling an I love you grudgingly falls out