tomcats-and-tophats

Defining your sexuality as uniquely “being attracted to PERSONALITY” is just so condescending and revealing. Like how poorly do you regard your LGBT siblings to cast our experiences in such an ugly superficial light

tomcats-and-tophats

@vroomkat literally what could you be interpreting as “satirical” in a post expressing distress over the fact that so many people seem to think that LGB people are incapable of being attracted to their partner based on their personality instead of their bodies

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in theory i think its fine if you identify as pan instead of bi but in practice everyone ive met whos pan is very obnoxious about italso if you think gender doesnt factor at ALL in how you perceive people... you are lying to yourself!