honey-andrevolution:

missvoltairine:

this is catty and bitchy and presumptuous of me but when a self-identified “radical queer” with like, a bandana around their neck and a septum piercing and an asymmetrical haircut tells me they’re TOTALLY into nonmongamy, my first reaction is usually, like, okay but are you, like, chill about it, or are you just into it because you really like generating drama

I literally just spat out my biscuit and cheese

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  4. struggz2func said: by ‘emotionally handle’ i meant like, i am willing to go thru the thought processes necessary to date someone who does not want to be monogamous, not that being poly is inherently a ~challenge to be taken on~ or anything, u kno
  5. struggz2func said: god, flashbacks to college and being flaked on by ppl like this twice (i’m personally monogamous but have dated/can emotionally handle dating poly people) p much to create drama. like i was the non-poly person being like, ‘wow, ok, i thought u told me the ~big thing~ abt poly is communication and i’m wondering how u so profoundly managed to fuck that up’. but i think it was also partially b/c i was like, 35 in dating years by the time i was 20, and so over all of it.
  6. battlebutch said: ! it’s usually also a bad sign when they think that polyamory itself = radical and -kweer- tbh (also polyam here)
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    I literally just spat out my biscuit and cheese
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