nordin seruyan photographs a snail in central borneo asking a frog if he wants a ride
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Trigger warning: predatory behaviour, creepiness, sexual assault. Yesterday, I read this account of creepy stalking behaviour retold by a woman whose husband had witnessed it first-hand and subsequ…“Indeed, the idea of ‘winning the girl’ – of overcoming female objections or resistance through repeated and frequently escalating efforts – is central to most of our modern romantic narratives. (Female persistence, by contrast, is viewed as pathetic.) And the more I think about instances of creepiness, harassment and stalking that culminate in either the threat or actuality of sexual assault, the more I’m convinced that a massive part of the problem is this socially sanctioned idea that men are fundamentally entitled to persist. Because if men are meant to persist, then women who say no must only be rejecting the attempt, not the man himself, so that every separate attempt becomes one of a potentially infinite number of keys which might just fit the lock of the woman’s approval. She’s not the one who’s allowed to say no, not really; she should be silent and passive as a locked door, waiting patiently while the man runs through however many keys he can be bothered trying. And if he gets sick of this lengthy process and just breaks in? Well, frustration under those circumstances is only natural. Either the door shouldn’t have been there to impede him, or it shouldn’t have been locked.”
Excellent article. Also see the link at the beginning to “The Question”, which is another must-read.
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i am really gracefull like the running anti-lopes!
“welcome to tumblr we accept everyone!!!”
ok sweet
“unless you’re white, cisgned, or a turtle. fuck turtles”
i sadly crawl inwards to my dark green shell, creating slow, salty tears